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很多父母抱怨自己的孩子不听话，不好管教。那么，发出这样抱怨的时候，你可曾想过是不是自己的表达方式不恰当，才导致孩子不如己愿？ HARMFUL:Because l said so! BENEFICIAL:I know you want to play a little more,but we have to go to see grandma. 千万不要说：这是我说的，你要听！ 而是说：我当然知道你想和小熊玩的心情，不过，我们真的得去见见外婆哦~ HARMFUL:Stop crying. BENEFICIAL:I know how bad you feel .I'd be sad too. 千万不要说：把眼泪给我收回去！ 而是说：我懂你的伤心，毕竟，我也很难过~ HARMFUL:If you don't eat your cereal,you'll stay weak and small. BENEFICIAL:If you eat your cereal,you'll be clever and strong like dad. 千万不要说：你要是吃不完饭，就会长得挫！ 而是说：如果你好好吃饭，一定会像爸爸一样强壮~ HARMFUL:You're doing it wrong.give it to me! BENEFICIAL:Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly. 千万不要说：你这么做错了！给我，我给你搭！ 而是说：我有个小技巧，让我来展示一下，如何搭得更快些吧~ HARMFUL:I see you're anxious. BENEFICIAL:Let's talk about it. 千万不要说：你看上去不高兴。 而是说：要不，咱俩唠唠~ HARMFUL:Let's get going.how long do i have to wait for you? BENEFICIAL:Race you to get dressed and ready ! 千万不要说：赶紧出发！你到底让我等你多久？ 而是说：来比赛吧？看谁先准备好出门~ HARMFUL:Take it ! just stop crying ! BENEFICIAL:I understand,bue you know I can't allow it. 千万不要说：给你，拿好了，不准哭了！ 而是说：我理解你的心情，不过，你也知道，这不应该是我允许你做的~ HARMFUL:If you wash the dishes,I'll give candy. BENEFICIAL:Remember when you washed the dishes the other day?you helped me so much! 千万不要说：你洗完了这些餐具，我就给你糖果吃！ 而是说：你记得你那天帮我把餐具洗干净了吗？你简直帮了我一个大忙呢~ HARMFUL:How do I know? BENEFICIAL:I don't know that yet,but I'll tell you when I find out. 千万不要说：你问我，我问谁去？！ 而是说：我也不知道这个问题，不如，我找到答案后，和你分享？ HARMFUL:Stop watching TV. BENEFICIAL:Let's go and play a game! 千万不要说：不准再看电视了！ 而是说：一起去玩游戏吧？
HARMFUL:Look what you've done! BENEFICIAL:I know you didn't mean to,but be more careful next time. 千万不要说：看看你惹的祸！ 而是说：我知道你本意不是像这样，但是下次记得小心些~
HARMFUL:Look at peter.he always comes back home on time, unlike you. BENEFICIAL:Try to come back on time.it's very important. 千万不要说：看看人家小明，从来都是按时回家，哪像你？！ 而是说：一定要尽量按时回家哦，这很重要呢~ 本文来源：facebook |
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