孩子也有自尊心,而且对孩子自尊心的伤害有可能影响他的一生,我们是否注意了呢? Harmful:Because I said so! Beneficial:I know you want to play a little more,but we have to go to see grandma. 不要说:这是我说的,你要听! 而是说:我当然知道你想多玩会儿,不过,我们真的该去看看外婆哦~ Harmful:Stop crying. Beneficial:I know how bad you feel.I'd be sad too. 不要说:把眼泪给我收回去! 而是说:我知道你很伤心,毕竟,我也很难过~ Harmful:If you don't eat your cereal,you'll stay weak and small. Beneficial:If you eat your cereal,you'll be clever and strong like dad. 不要说:你要是吃不完饭,就会长得挫! 而是说:如果你好好吃饭,一定会像爸爸一样聪明和强壮~ Harmful:You're doing it wrong.Give it to me! Beneficial:Let me show you a neat trick to do it quickly. 不要说:你这么做错了!把它给我! 而是说:我有个小技巧,让我来展示一下,如何搭得更快些吧~ Harmful:I see you're anxious. Beneficial:Let's talk about it. 不要说:你怎么这么忧虑。 而是说:我们谈谈这个问题吧~ Harmful:Let's get going.How long do I have to wait for you? Beneficial:Race you to get dressed and ready! 不要说:赶紧出发!你到底还要让我等你多久? 而是说:让我们比赛看看谁先准备好出门~ Harmful:Take it!Just stop crying! Beneficial:I understand,but you know I can't allow it. 不要说:给你,不准哭了! 而是说:我理解你的心情,不过,你也知道,我不能允许你这样做~ Harmful:If you wash the dishes,I'll give you candy. Beneficial:Remember when you washed the dishes the other day?You helped me so much! 不要说:你洗完了这些餐具,我就给你糖果吃! 而是说:你记得你那天帮我把餐具洗干净了吗?你简直帮了我一个大忙呢~ Harmful:How do I know? Beneficial:I don't know that yet,but I'll tell you when I find out. 不要说:你问我,我问谁去?! 而是说:我也不知道这个问题,不如,我找到答案后,和你分享? Harmful:Stop watching TV. Beneficial:Let's go and play a game! 不要说:不准再看电视了! 而是说:一起去玩游戏吧? Harmful:Look what you've done! Beneficial:I know you didn't mean to,but be more careful next time. 不要说:看看你惹的祸! 而是说:我知道你本意不是像这样,但是下次记得小心些~ Harmful:Look at Peter.He always come back home on time,unlike you. Beneficial:Try to come back on time.It's very important. 不要说:看看人家小明,从来都是按时回家,哪像你?! 而是说:一定要尽量按时回家哦,这很重要呢~ 善待、尊重每一个人!
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