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2017年IPA女性委员会（COWAP）大会——精神分析视野下的女性叙事（Women's Matter）大会中，中华女子学院李洪涛教授的主题演讲“将社会性别意识/敏感纳入妇女心理支持与服务”中朗诵了这首诗，引发了大家的共鸣，在此我们分享给大家。 只要有一个女人 For Every Woman 作 者：南希·史密斯 By Nancy R. Smith, copyright 1973 翻 译：黄长奇 只要有一女人 觉得自己坚强 因而讨厌柔弱的伪装 定有一个男人 意识到自己也有脆弱的地方 因而不愿再伪装坚强 For every woman who is tired of acting weak when she knows she is strong, there is a man who is tired of appearing strong when he feels vulnerable. 只要有一个女人 讨厌扮演幼稚无知的姑娘 定有一个男人 想摆脱“无所不晓”的高期望 For every woman who is tired of acting dumb, there is a man who is burdened with the constant expectation of 'knowing everything.' 只要有一个女人 讨厌“情绪化女人”的定型 定有一个男人 可以自由的哭泣和表现柔情 For every woman who is tired of being called 'an emotional female,' there is a man who is denied the right to weep and to be gentle. 只要有一个女人 在竞争中被称作没有女人味 定有一个男人 将竞争视为显示男子气概的唯一途径 For every woman who is called unfeminine when she competes, there is a man for whom competition is the only way to prove his masculinity. 只要有一个女人 厌倦了当性玩物 定有一个男人 必须为自己的勇猛程度担忧 For every woman who is tired of being a sex object, there is a man who must worry about his potency. 只要有一个女人 觉得自己为儿女所累 定有一个男人 没有享受为人之父的全部滋味 For every woman who feels 'tied down' by her children, there is a man who is denied the full pleasures of shared parenthood. 只要有一个女人 得不到有意义的工作和平等的概念 定有一个男人 不得不担起对另一个人的全部责任 For every woman who is denied meaningful employment or equal pay, there is a man who must bear full financial responsibility for another human being. 只要有一个女人 想弄懂汽车的构造而得不到帮助 定有一个男人 想享受烹饪的乐趣而得不到满足 For every woman who was not taught the intricacies of an automobile, there is a man who was not taught the satisfactions of cooking. 只要有一个女人 向自身的解放迈进一步 定有一个男人 发现自己也更接近自由之路 For every woman who takes a step toward her own liberation, there is a man who finds the way to freedom has been made a little easier |
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