这是一篇来自Facebook上的11张图,可以拿来测试一下,看看自己有没有负能量,再看看身边的人有没有负能量。我们的情绪很容易感染他人,不要把负面情绪带给别人,也不要让别人的负面情绪影响你。要给予别人正能量,不要在抱怨中度过;要积极地面对生活,生活才能更美好。 Negative people: Are afraid of change. Positive people: Are ready for new experiences. 负面的人害怕改变, 正面的人则欢迎新的机会到来 Negative people: Thinks (“Why should I praise people for doing what they have to?”) Positive people: Says (“Wow! You’re a real professional in your field!”) 负面的人觉得没必要称赞他人所做的事, 正面的人却往往会看到并赞赏他人的好。 Start a dialogue like this: Negative people: “You know, I’m going to...!” Positive people: “How are you doing? I hope everything’s great!” 负面的人说话总在讲着自己, 正面的人会想到去了解对方的心情。 Negative people: Think they’re the center of the universe. Positive people: Take care of others and are always ready to help. 负面的人往往觉得世界应该围着他打转, 正面的人却会伸出手扶他人一把。 Negative people: Blame others for their own mistakes. Positive people: Take responsibility for their failures. 负面的人总将错误怪到他人身上, 正面的人懂得为自己的失败负起责任。 Negative people: Never say sorry even when they know they’re guilty. Positive people: Apologize for any inconvenience caused. 负面的人就算知错也不愿道歉, 正面的人会在任何造成他人不便的时候先说声抱歉。 Negative people: Think only of personal gain and benefit. Positive people: Try not to hurt others’ feelings. 负面的人只会想着个人利益, 正面的人却会试着不去伤害到他人的感受。 Negative people: Hate to be criticized. Positive people: Welcome any constructive discussion. 负面的人讨厌被批评, 正面的人则欢迎有建设性的讨论。 Negative people: Secretly hope to see others fail. Positive people: Want others to succeed. 负面的人想看到其他人失败, 正面的人则希望看到其他人成功。 Negative people: Think they know everything. Positive people: Always strive to learn something new. 负面的人认为自己什么都懂, 正面的人却总想学习新事物。 Negative people: “I can’t do anything about it. This is my destiny.” Positive people: “I need to change something. I can’t keep living like this.” 负面的人遇到任何事都先退缩,告诉自己不行; 正面的人却会想办法改变,让自己活得更好。 “一念天堂,一念地狱”,成为正面或负面的人仅在一念之间。做好自己的选择,积极的生活吧! |
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