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即兴而发是活力人生的体现，如果你总想着所犯的错误，你就不能即兴而发。 当你即兴而发时，你就不会去咀嚼过去，不会去咀嚼自己的错误或他人的错误。你必须记住 - 不只是傻子犯错误，智者也犯错误。这里有九点能够帮助你面对错误，并继续前行。 2017/5/9 印度 班格罗  Spontaneity is the sign of a vibrant life, and you can't be spontaneous if you are brooding over your mistakes. When you are spontaneous, you don't chew on the past. You don’t chew on your mistakes or the mistakes of others. You must remember - it is not only fools who make mistakes, the wise also make mistakes. Here are 9 perspectives that can help you face your mistakes and move ahead.   To err is human. Don't sit and chew on your mistakes or someone else's mistakes. If someone else has made a mistake, forgive and forget. If you have made a mistake, ask for forgiveness and move on. Don't get stuck! Feel free! 1）人都会犯错误。不要坐在那咀嚼着别人的错误。如果别人犯了错，原谅、忘掉。如果你犯了错，请求原谅，并继续前行。不要卡在那儿！想开！    When you chew on the mistakes of others, you get angry. When you chew on your own mistakes, you will feel guilty and you will drown in your own depression. Both are no good. 2）当你咀嚼别人的错误时，你就会生气。当你咀嚼自己的错误时，你就会感到内疚，沉陷在沮丧里。这两种情况都不好。  Mistakes simply happen because of lack of awareness. Once awareness dawns in you, then you realize that you made a mistake out of ignorance. By realizing this, you come out of the mistake and become innocent once again. As long as you do not repeat it, it's okay. 3）错误的发生是因为缺乏觉知。一旦觉知萌生了，你就会意识到自己犯错误是出于无知。意识到这点，你就从错误中走出来了，再次变得纯净。只要你不重复错误，就可以了。 Everyone learns from their mistakes, but the intelligent ones learn from the mistakes of others as well, and avoid making them in their life. If you have a sharp intellect, then you will not repeat the mistake that someone else has done, otherwise everyone commits the same mistake and goes through the same ordeal. 4）每个人都从错误中学习，而聪明人也能从他人的错误中学习，从而避免在自己的生活中犯下同样的错误。如果你智力敏锐，你就不会重复他人的错误，否则每个人都会犯同样的错误，走同样的弯路。 Be in the moment. This is the best way to behave and to get over the past. Digging into the past and then complaining or giving an explanation is stupidity. 5）活在当下，这是超越过去的最好方法。纠缠过去然后抱怨或解释是愚蠢的。 Take responsibility for a mistake. Once you accept a mistake and take some remedial measures, then you find peace. But if you brush off a mistake and act as if you didn't do it, then it starts to prick you from within. 6）承担错误的责任。一旦你接受错误并采取一些补救措施，你就会感到和平。但如果你对错误置之不理就好像你从没做过一样，那它就会开始从内在刺痛你。 Ignorant people around you may remind you of your mistakes, but you should have compassion for them instead of feeling hurt or angry. Think so – “Oh, they are still stuck in the past and do not know that I am a totally different person now. I have changed”. This faith you must develop in yourself. There is no need to fall into self-pity. 7）你周围无知的人可能会提醒你的错误，但你应该对他们给予同情心，而不是感到受伤害或者生气。就这么想--'哦，他们还卡在过去，不知道我现在完全不一样了，我已经改变了“。你必须培养这种信念。没有必要陷入自哀自怜。 There are some people who believe that they are always right, and so they don’t learn anything from their experiences and repeat the same mistakes. There are also some people who think that they are always wrong. Both these attitudes are not good. You should take the middle path. Learn from mistakes made and go ahead with the conviction that God is on my side and will not allow me to fail. 8）有一些人相信自己总是正确的，所以不会去从自己的经历中学习，就会犯同样的错误。也有一些人总是觉得自己不对。这两种态度都不好。你应该采取中庸之道。从错误中吸取教训，然后前进，并坚信上帝站在自己这边，不会让自己失败。 If your intention is/was correct, then that is all that matters. 9）如果你的动机是正确的，那才是真正要紧的。 （英文来源：www.artofliving.org） |
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