爱与敬

中国传统伦理中重要的两个字：爱、敬。“爱”又称为“亲亲”，“敬”称为“尊尊”。爱是敬的基础，敬是爱的表现和保证。如果没有一种敬，没有一种非常严肃认真的“敬”的话，爱是得不到保证的。而现代中国的问题就在过于强调爱而不强调敬，导致爱无法得到保证了。

​There are two important words in Chinese traditional ethics: love and respect. "Love" is also called "kiss", "respect" is called "respect". Love is the foundation of respect, respect is the expression and guarantee of love. Without a respect, without a very serious "respect", love is not guaranteed. The problem of modern China is that it is too much emphasis on love rather than respect, resulting in love can not be guaranteed.