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Why bother falling in love with just one person when you could have love affairs with the whole existence? Let’s take a look at what is romance and what being a true romantic means. 当你可以和整个世界发生爱情的时候，为什么还要只爱上一个人呢？让我们来看看什么是浪漫，什么是真正的浪漫。 Sadhguru: Unfortunately, people have brought romance down to only a young male and female. Why just the neighborhood girl? The neighborhood girl has become magnified in your eyes because your intelligence has been hijacked by your hormones. If it wasn’t, the whole universe and every piece of creation is worth involvement, isn't it? That’s what is romance. It is a very deep involvement. 萨古鲁：不幸的是，人们把浪漫的爱情归结为只有一对年轻的男女。为什么只有邻里女孩？邻里女孩在你的眼中变得更大了，因为你的智力被你的荷尔蒙劫持了。如果不是，整个宇宙和每一件创造物都值得参与，不是吗？这就是浪漫。这是一个非常深入的参与。
The whole problem of constantly seeing people for their gender is something that has to go from the world. 不断地从性别的角度去看待人，这是一个必须从世界上消失的问题。 Right now in this world, it has become like this: if you utter the word “relationship” it has to be man-woman. They may not always be man-woman, but even if it is otherwise, people play the roles of man-woman. So essentially, what you call a relationship nowadays is just the involvement of two bodies. 现在在这个世界上，它变成了这样:如果你说“关系”这个词，它必须是男人女人。他们可能并不总是男-女，但即使不是这样，人们也扮演着男-女角色。所以本质上，你现在所说的关系就是两个身体的参与。 But just a few decades ago, if you said, 'I have a relationship,' it meant much more. People had relationships with their mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, friends… but today we have reduced our social discourse to such a level that if we say “relationship,” it must be a hormone-fired relationship. 但就在几十年前，如果你说“我有一段感情”，那就意味着更多。人们和他们的母亲、父亲、姐妹、兄弟、朋友都有关系，但是今天我们已经把我们的社会话语减少到这样的程度，如果我们说“关系”，那一定是荷尔蒙引发的关系。 The whole problem of constantly seeing people for their gender is something that has to go from the world. Why can't you just look at human beings as they are? Why is it that you have to say “This is a woman, this is a man?” That is only needed for one type of relationship. There is no need to recognize and identify people for their body parts every moment in your life. If you must identify them by body parts, at least let's choose the brain, not the reproductive organs. 不断地从性别的角度去看待人，这是一个必须从世界上消失的问题。为什么你不能只看人类的本来面目?为什么你不得不说“这是一个女人，这是一个男人?”这只适用于一种关系。在你的生活中，没有必要每时每刻都根据人们的身体部位来识别他们。如果你必须根据身体部位来识别它们，至少让我们选择大脑，而不是生殖器官。
It’s quite common to find people today going about saying, “Love is the core of the universe.” Love is not the core of the universe. Believe me, love is just a human emotion. It’s a human need that two human beings can fulfill for each other. It is a certain sweetness of your emotion that you call as love. Unfortunately, most human beings are able to give that sweetness of emotion only to one person who will provide some physical satisfaction for them. Otherwise they cannot open up. It is time we understand that we can have very profound relationships without having anything to do with the physical body. 今天人们常说：“爱是宇宙的核心。”爱不是宇宙的核心。相信我，爱只是一种人类的情感。两个人可以互相满足，这是人类的需要。你称之为爱是你情感中的某种甜蜜。不幸的是，大多数人只能把这种甜蜜的情感给予一个人，而这个人会为他们提供一些身体上的满足。否则他们就不能开门。是时候让我们明白，我们可以在不与身体有任何关系的情况下建立非常深厚的关系了。 I am deeply involved, engaged and have love affairs with millions of people. I don't know whether they reciprocate or not. I don't know whether they like me or not, but I have a fabulous love affair with just about everyone that I see and cannot see, because for me, love is not about them. Love is about how I am within myself. 我与成千上万的人有很深的感情，订婚和恋爱。我不知道他们是否回报。我不知道他们是否喜欢我，但我和我所见所不见的每一个人都有一段奇妙的爱情，因为对我来说，爱与他们无关。爱是关于我的内在。 Love&Grace 爱与恩典 |
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