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前段时间，霉霉Taylor Swift接受了《ELLE》杂志的专访并谈到了她而立之年学会的事情，揭秘了她近30年来的人生经验。 According to my birth certificate, I turn 30 this year. It's weird because part of me still feels 18 and part of me feels 283, but the actual age I currently am is 29. 依照出生证明，今年我将步入而立之年。这种感觉很奇怪，因为我体内一部分的自己感觉像是18岁，另一部分的自己感觉像是283岁。不过，我现在可是实打实的29岁。 I've heard people say that your thirties are 'the most fun!' So I'll definitely keep you posted on my findings on that when I know. But until then, I thought I'd share some lessons I've learned before reaching 30, because it's 2019 and sharing is caring. 我听人们说30岁是人生“最有趣”的阶段，所以当我到达那个阶段的时候，我会与你们分享我的心得。但是直到现在，2019年，我想我应该和你们分享一些我在30岁之前所累积的关于人生的经验教训，分享就是关爱。 I learned to block some of the noise. 我学会去屏蔽掉外界的一些噪音。 Being sweet to everyone all the time can get you into a lot of trouble. 一直保持对所有人都和蔼可亲会让你惹上许多麻烦。 Trying and failing and trying again and failing again is normal. 屡战屡败、屡败屡战是再正常不过的事情了。 I learned to stop hating every ounce of fat on my body. 我学会了不再憎恶我身上的每盎司脂肪。 Banish the drama. 别把生活过成一部戏剧片。 I learned not to let outside opinions establish the value I place on my own life choices. 我学会不让外界舆论来确立我所赋予自己人生选择的价值。 Apologizing when you have hurt someone who really matters to you takes nothing away from you. 当你伤害了一个对你很重要的人，立刻去道歉，这对你来说毫无损失。 It’s my opinion that in cases of sexual assault, I believe the victim. 在性侵案中，我会相信受害者，这是我的个人观点。 When tragedy strikes someone you know in a way you’ve never dealt with before, it’s okay to say that you don’t know what to say. 当你从未经历过的悲剧发生在你周遭的人身上时，你可以说你不知所措。 Vitamins make me feel so much better! 维生素让我感觉超级棒！ Before you jump in headfirst, maybe, I don’t know...get to know someone! 在你给一个人下定论之前，也许,我不知道...应该再进一步地了解他（她）！ After my teen years and early twenties of sleeping in my makeup and occasionally using a Sharpie as eyeliner (DO NOT DO IT), I felt like I needed to start being nicer to my skin. 我在青年时期和二十岁出头的时候经常会带妆睡觉，偶尔会用记号笔画眼线（别这么做），我觉得我需要开始对我的皮肤再好点。 Realizing childhood scars and working on rectifying them. 正视童年伤疤，尽力抚平它们。 Playing mind games is for the chase. 玩心理战只适用于爱情里的你我追逐阶段。 Learning the difference between lifelong friendships and situationships. 学会辨别终身友谊和泛泛之交。 Fashion is all about playful experimentation. 时尚就是好玩的实验。 How to fight fair with the ones you love. 如何和你爱的人公平竞争。 I learned that I have friends and fans in my life who don’t care if I’m canceled. 我知道生活中有许多朋友和粉丝不在乎我是否被否定。 I’ve had to learn how to handle serious illness in my family. 当家人身患重大疾病，我知道该如何应对。 I make countdowns for things I’m excited about. 我对让我兴奋的日子都会进行倒计时。 I learned that disarming someone’s petty bullying can be as simple as learning to laugh. 我学到了瓦解别人的欺凌就像学会大笑一样简单。
I’m finding my voice in terms of politics. 我学会了开始在政治领域发声。 I learned that your hair can completely change texture. 我学到了发质是完全可以改变的。 Step into the daylight and let it go. 拥抱光明，随心而行。
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