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现在让我来高度你一个启发性的故事。一个年轻的男人长的既不帅又没有钱，但是他每次约会的对象都是高档次的女人，这是为什么呢？因为许多男人追女人的方式就是通过用他们的真诚感动对方，只要对方愿意喜欢自己他们会奉上他们的一切，但这种方式最终却不如想象中的有效。这个年轻人却利用了一种特殊的方式，他将自己最好的一面暴露给对方，使女人从心底里喜欢他，心甘情愿的跟他交往。跟他相比，那些传统的男人们不太注意自己的条件，他们可能脏、懒、粗鲁等等，他们不会给女人留下好的第一印象，如果她们每次见到你就心烦，她们怎么可能愿意继续跟他交往呢。 Now let me tellyou an inspiring story.A young man was not handsome nor rich, but every time thewoman he could date with would be a high-grade one,why?Because many men chaseafter women by means of moving them with their good fatith, they would give hiswhole world only if the woman would love him,but this way turns out to be notas effective as expected.But this young man utilize this special method, thathe behaved his best aspects to the women, which made the women like him intheir deep heart, they would like to interact with them positively.Comparingwith him, those traditional men don’t care about their own conditions, they manybedirty, lazy,rude and so on, they couldn’t give women a good first impression,howwould they want to continue the relationship with you, if whenever she seesyou, she feels annoyed. 因此男人与女人之间的定律就是吸引力法则。对于男人来说让女人看见你的球场上生龙活虎的打篮球，比你在雨中等她3个小时更有效果。 So the principlebetween men and women is attraction.It is much better for the men to let hersee you play basketball with vigor and vitality in the playground than standingin the rain to wait for her for 3 hours. 现在你可以得出，在男女之间追求的过程中我们一般是被对方的优秀和魅力所吸引，甘愿用我们的热诚去打动他们。但是，事实上，最好的方式让我们赢得异性的青睐和真心是让我们自己变得越来越完美，以至于将对方吸引过来，让他们甘愿对我们热忱友好。 Now you coulddeduce that the general phenomenon of the chasing job between men and women is thatwe are attracted by the excellence and charm of the opposite gender, so we wantto move them with our empressement.But in fact, the best way for us to earn theopposite gender’s attention and heart is to make ourselves more and moreperfect, so as to we attract them to us, making them warm and kind to us. 有一种绳子与磁石的定律。对于女人，我们不应该表现的跟绳子一样，希望能够将我们的老公或男友仅仅的绑在自己身上，这种方式很容易引起他们的叛逆和厌倦，因为没有人愿意忍受长时间的缺乏自由。最好的保持长久关系的方式是永远不要放弃塑造自我，让我们自己越来越有魅力和吸引力，这样我们的伴侣即便是赶都赶不走。 And there is theprinciple about rope and magnet.As for women, we shouldn’t act as a piece ofrope, wanting to bundle your husband or boyfried tightly around you, this waycould easily arouse their rebellion and boredom,nobody couldn’t bear thelong-term constraintion of freedom.They best way to keep eternal relationshipwith them is never to stop building ourselves, making us more and more chamefuland attractive, so our parterner will never leave from us even you expel them. 顺便说一句，吸引力法则在职场中同样适用，只有你自身的条件才能够真正打动别人，并带给自己好运，而不是你的逢迎和厚脸皮。 By the way, thisattraction principle is also useful in the occupation.Only your own conditionscould really move others and bring the good opportunities, not your flatteringand your thick skin. 如果你能够每天表现出自己最好的一面，你将成为情场和职场中的赢家。 If you performthe best aspects every day, you will the winner both in the love and in thecareer. |
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