他们想：
“哦，她是个野性女人，
那一定意味着她很危险。
她可能疯了，让人很难应付。”从某种意义上说，这是事实。
对于那些还没有完全准备好自己，
并了解自我状态的人来说，
她的确太强大了。对于那些宁愿闲聊八卦，
而不愿深入生命的人来说，
她实在令人难以招架。如果你希望她压抑自己的愤怒，
悲伤或痛苦，
不让你看到她的混乱，
那么她真的会超出你的负荷。 但是请相信这一点：
野性女人会是你见过的最安全的女人。
她总是倾注全力，
不会退缩。
没有前后不一致的落差。你会见到她，
她也会让你看到她真实的样子。
她足够相信自己的价值到去向你展现自己，
并让你决定是否愿意与她同行。 她不会为了得到你的爱，
而隐藏自己的某些面向，
因为她不会浪费时间去经营缺乏深度和意义的关系。 一个野性的女人会邀请你去爱自己的全部。
她会在那里接纳你，
因为她已经对自己下了功夫，
她完全地接纳了自己。
Men may think a wild woman is a woman to be feared.They think, “oh she’s a wild woman, that must mean she’s dangerous. She’s probably crazy, too much to handle.”And in a sense, it’s true.She’s too much for someone who isn’t ready to show up fully and check their ego at the door. She’s too much for someone who would rather have small talk than go deep. She’s too much if you expect her to hold back her anger or her sadness or pain to protect you from seeing her in her chaos.But trust this: a wild woman is the safest type of woman you’ll ever meet. She doesn’t hold back. There are no surprises. You’ll meet her and she’ll let you see her for who she is. She trusts her own worthiness enough to reveal herself to you and let you decide whether or not you’d like to walk with her. She doesn’t hide parts of herself in an attempt to keep your love because she doesn’t have time for connections that lack depth and meaning.A wild woman will invite you to love all parts of yourself. She’ll accept you in that place, because she has done the work to accept herself there.
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