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文/两又同齐 Do you have the experience as following: you thought every roads in the night, and image what a beautiful life if you do so smoothly, then you will become excited and decide to act when you wake up. Then you have a good dream in that night with your perfect imagination and then all are disappeared the next day, and you are still working and rest as normally, Suddenly someday, when we heard someone who was poor now become rich with a lot funds. , and someone who was failed now is success in business, someone who studied bad now gets a good grade, then we decide to change and make a long plan, well, a few days passed, we quite it for many reasons, such as tired, some other things to deal, or someone visit and so on, we have many reasons why we can not keep it, and the key problem is we are lazy, Even, when we heard someone meet his better life, we thought perhaps his parents help him, maybe he is lucky or he meets his important person who like to help him, When we were a child. the import thing is to study, and the people around us share the information with us. the news is that we can get everything we want if we study good,and the student who is not good at learning will have a bad life, so we follow this principle until we finish the learning in the university or college. When we step in the society, we find our schoolmate who only playing in the school gets a good job, and some schoolmate go to a famous company which is his friend introduced, the people who get high goals in the school now is looking for a job. To a certain extent, it is our starting point which decide our flying height, one day, I watch one video, which is the teacher asks his students questions in the play grounds, at first they are in the same one, and the questions as bellowing: The First question: who’s parents have a high education above the university? Please go ahead sixes step in to next line. The Second question: If there is one to one study in your home, who employed by your parents, Please go ahead six steps in to next line. The Third question:If your parents insist let you learning a skill which is not school study, and now you still keep learning it well, please go ahead six steps in to next line The Forth question:If you have a trip to a foreign country one time from you were born to now, please go ahead sixes step in to next line. After the four questions, the students have a larger distance between each other, some one is in the first front, some one is still keep behind, The fifth question, Are you the proud of your parents? And has your dad or mum give a high comments to you among your friends and relatives? If so, please go ahead sixes step in to next line. Then they let the students who in fronts turn back to see how many students are behind of them,and then the teacher told these students that why they can stand this line , it is not any relationship with your efforts, it is become your parents, if you start to run together, perhaps the front students can be some leading than the students who is at back of you,but it is not a certain who can reach the ends at first, it is based on your hard work and running speed, So from these sentence we can know that as a parent, what we can do is working hard and trying to reach our goals, so that our children can get a better future based on us, we try to be better ourselves, And that the same time, we shall let our children understand that even you do not have a good background, you can make your dreams come true by yourself, to be better yourselves, But how we can meet better ourselves? Firstly, to make a plan, a big plan then a step plan for the big plan, Secondly, to insist and keep on it, no matter how busy our life is, just save time for this plan. Thirdly, once we decide to start, we can make a record for each day, it can help you see your Achievement in a short time, and it will encourage you when you want to give up. Such as make a short goal, reading 10 pages of one book each day, take exercise for 10 minutes and so on, one week passed, one month passed, then when you review it, you will find you have go a long way, several books have been read, and you body become more stronger. About the life plan, there is one word said, please stand further 5years to see now. And then make each steps to get it in five years, of course, perhaps we can not be the final person who we want to be finally, anyhow, we must be better than now, right? So to be better yourself, and to catch what you want, we are on the way for our dreams, when you have a mind, please write it on the paper then to action and keep it, Every road leads to Rome, and the key is to action, we are the mater of our own destiny, so please accept our ordinariness and then try our best to make a difference, Perhaps we are the last ones at first, but it does not mean we will keep the last ones forever. The life is like a ship on the ocean. Perhaps we will meet the storm. Perhaps we will meet the strong windy, perhaps it is fine, clear and calm day, all these make our lives full of rich and colourful. So please hug and enjoy our lives every moments. And to meet better ourselves. 上一篇： |
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