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小红家境很富有，她的对象小陈家条件一般，还有一个小叔子和小姑子，小红非要嫁给小陈，小红妈妈开始不同意，但小红执意要嫁，还威胁她妈妈说，如果不同意她嫁小陈，她就和家庭断绝关系。最后她妈妈没有办法，同意她嫁给小陈。小陈家买不起房子，给不起彩礼，小红妈妈怕女儿嫁过去受苦，就自己掏钱，全款给女儿小红买了套九十平米的房子，但小红妈妈多了个心眼，房产证上只写了小红妈妈的名字，而且还叫上小红和小陈去做公证，指明这个房子是她出全款买的，暂时借给小红居住，将来如果她不在世了，这个房子只留给自己女儿小红一个人，房子将来属于小红个人财产。为这个事小红还怪她妈妈心眼太多，小红妈妈说，房子是我出钱买的，我想这么做就这么做。你不愿意，你可以不要这个房子。小红最后闷声不敢吭气了。 小红要出嫁了，她的妈妈对她说，你到了婆家，你不要事事做好人，小红不明白，说不做好人，要当坏人吗？她妈妈说，不是叫你当坏人，好人都不能做，你更不能做坏人了，我的意思是，你到了婆家，不要万事顺从别人，当好人，要学会适当的拒绝，还有一点，我要声明，你不能为了婆家来向我借钱，我不会给你一分钱的，因为我已经帮你全款买了房子了，你就不要再找我麻烦了。你出嫁以后，你要和你婆家一家人保持距离，不要和他们真的打成片，记住，顾好自己的小家就行了。 小红出嫁了，她和小陈住在自己的房子里，两人过得也还不错，可是没有多久，她婆婆来找事了，说小姑子要来城里打工，没有住处，可不可以让小姑子住在她们家里，小红说，这个房子是她妈妈买的房子，要回去问问自己妈妈。小红去找自己的妈妈商量这个事，小红妈妈说，我的房子只给你和你老公住，其他人不可以来住，请神容易，送神难，不准给外人来住。小红老老实实去回她婆婆话了。她婆婆非常的不高兴，她婆婆说，你嫁到我们家了，你的东西都是我们家的，凭什么不让你小姑子来住，小红说，我都是借住我妈的房子，这房子是我妈掏钱买的，房产证上是我妈的名。她婆婆听了，灰溜溜地走了。 又过了一段时间，小红老婆婆又来找小红和小陈两口子了，小红婆婆说，她小儿子要结婚了，她没有钱给彩礼，让小红和小陈两口子赞助一下，小红想到她妈妈说的话，不要当好人，不要做好事，小红一句话没有说，她找了个借口说，要去上班了，就走了。小红回到娘家和自己妈妈说这事，她妈妈说，你千万不要借钱给你婆婆，再说你自己也没有钱，你不可能去贷款给你婆婆吧，你更不要打我的主意，我有钱我也不会借给你。小红妈妈对小红说，如果你老公非要逼你借钱，你就和他离婚。小红听了她妈妈的话回家了。 小红晚上回到家，她婆婆和小陈在客厅坐着，小陈对小红说，你能不能去你妈妈家借点钱，你妈妈那么有钱，小红说，我妈说了，叫我不要去麻烦她，她不会借钱给我的，我也没有钱借给你妈，你要有钱呢，你就借，你借了，你的生活费你得交给我，不交生活费给我，我就只煮我自己的饭，我自己吃自己的饭，你自己吃你的饭。小红说完这话，她婆婆就骂起来了，她婆婆说白养了个儿子，自己不作主，还要听自己老婆的，小陈夹在中间左右难为人。小陈对小红吼着说，你去找你妈借点钱会咋个呢，你妈这么有钱，小红说，我说了，我不会去借的，我妈也不会借给我的，你要不想过，你就带着你妈走吧，我们离婚，省得为你家的事成天吵架。小陈听小红这么说，也不敢吭气了，他劝走了她妈。 小红非常地感谢自己的妈妈，她觉得自己的妈妈很了不起，看得太深刻了。 到了婆家千万不要做好人和好事，更不要回娘家来借钱 Don't borrow money and do good things with your mother-in-law 小红家境很富有，她的对象小陈家条件一般，还有一个小叔子和小姑子，小红非要嫁给小陈，小红妈妈开始不同意，但小红执意要嫁，还威胁她妈妈说，如果不同意她嫁小陈，她就和家庭断绝关系。最后她妈妈没有办法，同意她嫁给小陈。小陈家买不起房子，给不起彩礼，小红妈妈怕女儿嫁过去受苦，就自己掏钱，全款给女儿小红买了套九十平米的房子，但小红妈妈多了个心眼，房产证上只写了小红妈妈的名字，而且还叫上小红和小陈去做公证，指明这个房子是她出全款买的，暂时借给小红居住，将来如果她不在世了，这个房子只留给自己女儿小红一个人，房子将来属于小红个人财产。为这个事小红还怪她妈妈心眼太多，小红妈妈说，房子是我出钱买的，我想这么做就这么做。你不愿意，你可以不要这个房子。小红最后闷声不敢吭气了。 Xiao Hong's family is very rich. Her object Xiao Chen's family conditions are general. She also has a little brother-in-law and sister-in-law. Xiao Hong has to marry Xiao Chen. Xiao Hong's mother initially disagreed, but Xiao Hong insisted on marrying. She also threatened her mother that if she doesn't agree to marry Xiao Chen, she will cut off relations with her family. Finally, her mother had no choice but to agree with her to marry Xiao Chen. The Chen family can't afford to buy a house and give betrothal gifts. For fear that her daughter will suffer in the past, Xiaohong's mother paid for her daughter Xiaohong and bought a house of 90 square meters with the full amount. However, Xiaohong's mother has an extra heart. Only Xiaohong's mother's name is written on the real estate certificate, and Xiaohong and Chen are called to do notarization to indicate that she bought the house with the full amount and lent it to Xiaohong for living temporarily, In the future, if she is not alive, the house will be left to her daughter Xiaohong alone, and the house will belong to Xiaohong's personal property in the future. For this matter, Xiaohong also blames her mother for having too many minds. Xiaohong's mother said that I paid for the house. I'll do it if I want to. If you don't want to, you can not have this house. Xiao Hong was silent at last. 小红要出嫁了，她的妈妈对她说，你到了婆家，你不要事事做好人，小红不明白，说不做好人，要当坏人吗？她妈妈说，不是叫你当坏人，好人都不能做，你更不能做坏人了，我的意思是，你到了婆家，不要万事顺从别人，当好人，要学会适当的拒绝，还有一点，我要声明，你不能为了婆家来向我借钱，我不会给你一分钱的，因为我已经帮你全款买了房子了，你就不要再找我麻烦了。你出嫁以后，你要和你婆家一家人保持距离，不要和他们真的打成片，记住，顾好自己的小家就行了。 Xiaohong is going to get married. Her mother said to her, when you get to her husband's house, you don't want to be a good person in everything. Xiaohong doesn't understand. If you don't want to be a good person, do you want to be a bad person? Her mother said, it's not that you should be a bad person. Good people can't do it, and you can't be a bad person. I mean, when you go to your mother-in-law's house, don't follow others. When you are a good person, you should learn to refuse appropriately. Another point, I want to state that you can't borrow money from me for your mother-in-law's house, and I won't give you a penny, because I've helped you buy a house with all the money, Don't bother me anymore. After you get married, you should keep a distance from your mother-in-law's family. Don't really fight with them. Remember, just take care of your small family. 小红出嫁了，她和小陈住在自己的房子里，两人过得也还不错，可是没有多久，她婆婆来找事了，说小姑子要来城里打工，没有住处，可不可以让小姑子住在她们家里，小红说，这个房子是她妈妈买的房子，要回去问问自己妈妈。小红去找自己的妈妈商量这个事，小红妈妈说，我的房子只给你和你老公住，其他人不可以来住，请神容易，送神难，不准给外人来住。小红老老实实去回她婆婆话了。她婆婆非常的不高兴，她婆婆说，你嫁到我们家了，你的东西都是我们家的，凭什么不让你小姑子来住，小红说，我都是借住我妈的房子，这房子是我妈掏钱买的，房产证上是我妈的名。她婆婆听了，灰溜溜地走了。 Xiao Hong is married. She and Xiao Chen live in their own house, and they have a good life. However, before long, her mother-in-law came to find something and said that her sister-in-law wants to work in the city and has no residence. Can she let her sister-in-law live in their house? Xiao Hong said that this house was bought by her mother, so she should go back and ask her mother. Xiaohong went to her mother to discuss this matter. Xiaohong's mother said that my house is only for you and your husband, and others can't come to live. It's easy to ask God, but difficult to send God, and it's not allowed to live for outsiders. Xiao Hong went to talk to her mother-in-law honestly. Her mother-in-law was very unhappy. Her mother-in-law said, you married to our house, and all your things belong to our house. Why don't you let your little sister-in-law live in it? Xiao Hong said, I borrow my mother's house. My mother paid for it, and my mother's name is on the real estate certificate. Her mother-in-law listened and walked away in dismay. 又过了一段时间，小红老婆婆又来找小红和小陈两口子了，小红婆婆说，她小儿子要结婚了，她没有钱给彩礼，让小红和小陈两口子赞助一下，小红想到她妈妈说的话，不要当好人，不要做好事，小红一句话没有说，她找了个借口说，要去上班了，就走了。小红回到娘家和自己妈妈说这事，她妈妈说，你千万不要借钱给你婆婆，再说你自己也没有钱，你不可能去贷款给你婆婆吧，你更不要打我的主意，我有钱我也不会借给你。小红妈妈对小红说，如果你老公非要逼你借钱，你就和他离婚。小红听了她妈妈的话回家了。 After another period of time, Xiaohong's mother-in-law came to find Xiaohong and Xiaochen again. Xiaohong's mother-in-law said that her little son was getting married, and she had no money to give betrothal gifts. Let Xiaohong and Xiaochen sponsor. Xiaohong thought of what her mother said, don't be a good person and don't do good things. Xiaohong didn't say a word. She found an excuse and said that she was going to work, so she left. Xiao Hong went back to her mother's house and told her mother about it. Her mother said, you must not lend money to your mother-in-law. Besides, you don't have money yourself. You can't lend money to your mother-in-law. You don't think about me. I won't lend it to you if I have money. Xiaohong's mother said to Xiaohong that if your husband has to force you to borrow money, you will divorce him. Xiao Hong listened to her mother and went home. 小红晚上回到家，她婆婆和小陈在客厅坐着，小陈对小红说，你能不能去你妈妈家借点钱，你妈妈那么有钱，小红说，我妈说了，叫我不要去麻烦她，她不会借钱给我的，我也没有钱借给你妈，你要有钱呢，你就借，你借了，你的生活费你得交给我，不交生活费给我，我就只煮我自己的饭，我自己吃自己的饭，你自己吃你的饭。小红说完这话，她婆婆就骂起来了，她婆婆说白养了个儿子，自己不作主，还要听自己老婆的，小陈夹在中间左右难为人。小陈对小红吼着说，你去找你妈借点钱会咋个呢，你妈这么有钱，小红说，我说了，我不会去借的，我妈也不会借给我的，你要不想过，你就带着你妈走吧，我们离婚，省得为你家的事成天吵架。小陈听小红这么说，也不敢吭气了，他劝走了她妈。 When Xiao Hong came home in the evening, her mother-in-law and Xiao Chen were sitting in the living room. Xiao Chen said to Xiao Hong, can you go to your mother's house to borrow some money? Your mother is so rich. Xiao Hong said, my mother told me not to bother her. She won't lend money to me, and I don't have money to lend to your mother. If you want money, you can borrow it. If you borrow it, you have to give me your living expenses, If I don't pay the living expenses, I will only cook my own food, I will eat my own food, and you will eat your own food. After Xiao Hong said this, her mother-in-law scolded. Her mother-in-law said that Bai had a son, she didn't decide by herself, and she had to listen to her wife. Xiao Chen was difficult to be in the middle. Xiao Chen yelled to Xiao Hong, 'what will happen if you go to your mother to borrow some money? Your mother is so rich. Xiao Hong said, I said, I won't borrow it, and my mother won't lend it to me. If you don't think about it, you can take your mother and go. Let's divorce and save a quarrel for your family. Xiao Chen didn't dare to say anything after hearing what Xiao Hong said. He persuaded her to leave. 小红非常地感谢自己的妈妈，她觉得自己的妈妈很了不起，看得太深刻了。 Xiao Hong is very grateful to her mother. She thinks her mother is great and sees it too deeply.
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