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我们不去爱。问题不止如此。我们不爱。所以首先的，放掉所有你觉得不爱的东西。任何你习惯性使用的态度、言语，而你现在忽然觉得它们很残酷——放掉它们。 We don'tlove. But that is not the only' problem. We unlove. So first start droppinganything that you feel is unloving. Any attitude, any word that you have usedout of habit but that now suddenly you feel is cruel-drop it! 始终准备好去说，“对不起。”只有很少的人有能力这样说。尽管有人嘴上说着“对不起”，但他们并非由心在说。它可能就只是个社交礼节。要真正的说出“对不起”需要很大的了解。 Always be ready tosay, 'I am sorry.' Very few people are capable of saying this. Evenwhen they appear to be saying it, they are not. It may be just a socialformality. To really say 'I am sorry' is a great understanding. 你在说你做些一些错事，而你并非只是表示礼貌。你是在收回一些东西。你在收回你先前本要做的行为，你在收回你说出去的话。 You are saying thatyou have done something wrong and you are not just trying to be polite. You arewithdrawing something. You are withdrawing an act that was going to happen, youare withdrawing a word that you had uttered. 所以收回不爱的，当你这样做，你会发现，问题并非是要如何去爱。唯一的问题就在于如何不去爱的。 So with drawun love,and as you do you will see many more things that it is not really aquestion of how to love. It is only a question of how not to love. 就像一口山泉被石头给挡住了。你把石头移开，泉水就会开始流淌出来。它就在那里。 It is just like aspring covered with stones and rocks. You remove the rocks, and thespringstarts flowing. It is there. 每颗心都有爱，因为心没有爱就无法存活。爱是生命的悸动。没有了人，人无法存活，那是不可能的。这是基本的事实，每个人都有爱，都有去爱和被爱的能力。但有些岩石——错误的抚养，错误的态度，自认聪明，狡猾，以及一千零一件事在挡道。 Every heart haslove,because the heart cannot exist without it. It is the very pulse of life.Nobody can be without love; that is impossible. It is a basic truth thateveryone has love, has the capacity to love and to be loved. But somerocks-wrong upbringing, wrong attitudes, cleverness, cunningness, and athousand and one things are blocking the path. 收回不爱的行为，不爱的言语，不爱的体姿，然后突然地你会发现你处在一个爱的氛围里。 Withdraw unlovingacts, unloving words, unloving gestures, and then suddenly you will catchyourself in a very loving mood. 当你突然的发现有些事情在浮现，很多的片刻就会来到你——那是爱，你只是瞥见到它。然后渐渐地，这些片刻停留的时间会越来越长。 Many moments willcome when suddenly you will see that something is bubbling-and there was love,just a glimpse. And by and by those moments will become longer |
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