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中华豪门—门文化—门开进财,户闭福来

 上海雅舍辛乙堂 2022-12-16 发布于上海

本期编辑/开鸿顺

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中华文化博大精深,在五千年的历史发展过程中也形成了不少的民间俗语,它们是劳动人民的智慧结晶,经过古人口口相传而来,虽然内容浅显易懂却又发人深思。虽然历经了漫长的岁月,但是却依然在民间流行,与那些高雅的诗词歌赋相比,俗语显得更加亲切,也更容易被人们接受。

The Chinese culture is broad and profound. During the five thousand years of historical development, a lot of folk sayings have also been formed. They are the crystallization of the wisdom of the working people. They have been passed down from mouth to mouth by ancient people.

众所周知,古代富贵人家在建筑房屋时期,大多都会安置出较多的门窗。而在较多的门窗中,只有大门才是正门,其他的小门都被称为了偏门。在《红楼梦》影视剧中,贾家的院落非常大,院落的各个方向都有着较多的小门。

As we all know, most of the rich and noble families in ancient times placed more doors and windows during the building period. Among many doors and windows, only the main door is the main door, and other small doors are called side doors. In the film and TV play A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia's courtyard is very large, and there are many small doors in all directions of the courtyard.

家中有亲戚贵戚来访之时,就会引人从正门进入客厅。没有身份地位前来拜访贾家之人所走的们就是偏门。偏门也经常被人们当做搬运一些物品的主要通道,古代时期因为一个大宅门比较多的原因,人们将正大门称为了门,而将偏门或小门称为户。

When relatives and relatives come to visit, they will lead people into the living room from the front door. People who come to visit the Jia family without status and status are the side door. The side gate is also often used as the main passage for people to carry some goods.

古人们可以根据一道大门的经常开放与一道小门的经常关闭来判断一户人家是否有较多的福气?俗语:“门常开进财,户常闭福来”就是古人用来判断一个家族是否富贵,子孙后代是否有福气的典型语句,你知道其中的门和户敞开与关闭都代表着什么吗?

The ancients could judge whether a family had more blessings according to the frequent opening of a door and the frequent closing of a small door? As the saying goes, "doors are always open for wealth, and households are always closed for prosperity" is a typical sentence used by ancient people to judge whether a family is rich and whether future generations are blessed. Do you know what the opening and closing of doors and households mean?

一、“门常开进财”

在了解完古人们口中所说的门是正门后再来了解俗语大门常开的俗语,此句俗语就显得通俗易懂。古人认为,当一户人家的大门经常打开着,那么就会有较多的名门望族和亲戚朋友前来走访。一个家族比较热闹,经常有亲戚朋友来往,那么说明此家的人缘较好

After knowing that the ancient people said that the door is the main door, we can learn the saying that the door is always open. This saying is easy to understand. The ancients believed that when the door of a family was always open, more famous families, relatives and friends would come to visit.

无论是古代还是现代,人们行走江湖所讲的除了“义”字外,讲的便是人缘。古代人的人缘较好,厅堂犹如闹市,那么他们家的财气自然会更高。因此,古人们认为如果富人家的大门经常打开,这是迎财的象征。

Whether ancient or modern, what people talk about in the Jianghu is popularity, in addition to the word "righteousness". The ancient people had good popularity, and the hall was like a busy market, so their family's wealth would be higher. Therefore, the ancient people believed that if the door of the rich family was often opened, it was a symbol of welcoming wealth.

二、“户常闭福来”

古人对于前期一户人家所走的门是正门还是偏门有着较多的讲究,如果一人被一户人家从大门迎接进入正堂,那么说明此人的身份地位都比较高。人们寻找此人来也是相谈一些光明正大求财的事情,可如果一个人的地位低下或是犯了事,富贵人家便会将此人从偏门引进。主人家引入这些人进门后会问话小斯或审问犯罪之人。

The ancients paid more attention to whether the front door or the side door was used by a family in the early period. If a person was welcomed into the main hall by a family from the front door, it indicates that the person's status is relatively high. People are also looking for this person to talk about some fair and aboveboard things.

古人认为这是不光彩的事情,因此不会让这些小斯或者犯罪之人从大门进入宅内。除此之外,当一户富贵人家的大门经常关闭着,而小门经常敞开着,说明这家人在做见不得人的勾搭。正门则寓意着光明正大,偏门则寓意着不走正道。

The ancients believed that this was a disgraceful thing, so they would not let these young people or criminals enter the house through the gate. In addition, when the door of a rich family is often closed and the small door is often open, it shows that the family is engaged in shady collusion. The main gate means to be aboveboard, while the side gate means not to follow the right path.

如果一女子的丈夫常年在外不归家,而女子又时长将大门关闭,小门时常敞开,那么女子可能会在家中做出轨而对不起丈夫对不起一个家庭的事情。因此 古人们认为一户人家如果经常将大门紧闭而小门敞开,说明这家的财气不旺,而且福气也不会多。

If a woman's husband stays away from home all the year round, and the woman keeps the door closed and the small door open for a long time, then the woman may cheat at home and be sorry for her husband. Therefore, the ancient people believed that if a family often closed the door and opened the small door, it would show that the family was not rich, and it would not have much luck.

古代时期的男婚女嫁其实也讲究门当户对,意思是连人家的身份差不多,富贵程度也差不多。这两个绅士和家饰都相差不大的人成为一家人,他们的财气会越来越高,福气也会越来越多,子孙也会福寿延绵。

In ancient times, men's marriage and women's marriage also paid attention to family identity, which means that people's identity and wealth are similar. These two gentlemen and people who are not much different from the household ornaments will become a family, and their wealth will become higher and higher, their blessings will become more and more, and their descendants will enjoy a long life.

了解完大门与小门的区别后,俗语:“户常闭福来”的意思也就比较容易了解。此处所说的“户常闭福来”表示的是大户人家经常将大门敞开,而不经常开动小门来传命那些小厮或者犯罪,那么这家人的福气就会越来越多。

After understanding the difference between the gate and the small gate, it is easier to understand the saying: "The household is always closed and blessed". The "household is always closed and blessed" here means that if a large family often opens the door, but does not often open the small door to order those little servants or criminals, then the family will be more and more blessed.

因为一个家族在正常的运营着人际关系,每一位来到家中的人都是从大门进入,这也象征着光明正大。小门紧闭则表示这个家族中没有不正当的人前来,家中也没有做一些折断富气的事情。因此小门经常紧闭着,这是福气的象征。

Because a family is operating the interpersonal relationship normally, everyone who comes to the home enters through the door, which also symbolizes fairness and uprightness. When the door is closed, it means that there are no improper people in the family, and the family has not done anything to break the rich. Therefore, the small door is often closed, which is a symbol of happiness.

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