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到底什么是情人？也许有人会说找情人，太简单了！其实你并不知道什么才算是真正的情人。情人并非是许多人想象的那样，互相有点好感上过床就是情人了。 其实情人是个很美的字眼，它清丽，婉约，淡雅，绵远悠长。它是行走在朋友，红颜知己，爱人边缘的一种情。它比爱人多了一份浪漫，它比朋友多了一份知心，更比红颜知己多了一份身体上的接触！ 真正的情人绝不会扰乱彼此家庭的生活，更不会半路移情别恋，而是只为一句誓言就足够等候一生，专一直至。 那么情人到底是什么？从来没有具体的答案，也从来没有统一的形象和模式。情人是一种感觉，一份思念，一个牵挂，一个希望对方快乐！ What exactly is a lover? Maybe someone will say it's too easy to find a lover! In fact, you don't know what a true lover is. Lovers are not what many people imagine. Having a good relationship with each other is a lover. In fact, lover is a very beautiful word. It is beautiful, graceful, elegant and long. It is a feeling of walking on the edge of friends, confidants and lovers. It is more romantic than a lover, more intimate than a friend, and more physical contact than a confidant! Real lovers will never disturb each other's family life, nor will they change their hearts halfway. Instead, they will wait for a lifetime just for one oath. So what is a lover? There has never been a specific answer, nor has there ever been a unified image and model. Lover is a feeling, a yearning, a concern, and a hope that each other happy! 情人是白天的守候，黑夜的等待，生活中的甜蜜，能让人陶醉！情人的感觉是什么？没有人能说的清道的明...... 是酸——酸得让人无奈； 是甜——甜得让人回味； 是苦——苦得让人流泪； 是爱——爱得让人沉醉； 于是有了情人就有了牵挂 有了惦记，有了思念 有了激情，有了梦想....... 什么时候你对你爱人之外的一个异性，有了丝丝的情， 悠悠的爱， 无声的念， 几天不见就思念，见到自己爱人也懒得言语，那么或许他就是你的情人！ 有时候他会让你不经意就想起他，你自己也许都不敢相信！当你与亲人在一起漫谈时你会想起，当你与爱人散步时你会想起…… Lovers are waiting in the day, waiting in the night, and the sweetness in life can make people intoxicated! What does a lover feel? No one can say how clear the road is It's sour - it's so sour that people feel helpless; Is sweet - sweet aftertaste; Is bitter - bitter to tears; It is love - love makes people intoxicated; So when you have a lover, you will have a concern, a yearning, a passion, a dream When you have a little love for someone other than your lover, a long love, a silent thought, and miss when you don't see him for a few days, and don't bother to speak when you see your lover, then maybe he is your lover! Sometimes he will remind you of him carelessly, and you may not believe it! When you chat with your relatives, you will think of…… 当你难以入睡时你会想起，当你梦醒时你会想起，当你工作在电话边你更会想起！他总是在你的脑海里在你的思绪里在你的记忆深处与你的灵魂融为一体，难以忘怀。 情人是一种心灵的感应，是一种情感的呼唤，是一种期待，是一种想念，是一种安慰，是一种精神筹码。情人不需要刻骨铭心的誓言，不需要海枯石烂的承诺，需要丝丝缕缕的牵挂，需要缠缠绵绵的思念，需要点点滴滴的去呵护，需要时时刻刻去关怀。“红藕香残玉簟秋，轻解罗裳，独上兰舟。云中谁寄锦书来？雁字回时，月满西楼。” 花自飘零水自流，一种相思，两处闲愁。 相关话题：世界上有一种痛，也叫做情人！ 最近情人话题说了很多，从前我觉得情人就是小三，是破坏家庭的。但是最近接到了很多倾诉之后我才理解原来很多人都误解了情人。 When you are hard to sleep, you will remember, when you wake up, when you work beside the phone, you will remember! He is always in your mind, in your thoughts, in your memory, and your soul, unforgettable. The lover is a kind of spiritual induction, a kind of emotional call, a kind of expectation, a kind of missing, a kind of comfort, and a kind of spiritual chip. Lovers do not need the indelible oath, the dead end commitment, the wisps of care, the lingering yearning, the bit by bit care, and the care all the time. 'The red lotus root is fragrant and the jade is standing in the autumn. You can take off your clothes and go to the orchid boat alone. Who sent the brocade book from the cloud? When the wild goose returns, the moon is full in the west tower.' Flowers drift and water flows. One kind of acacia, two places of idle sorrow. Related topic: There is a kind of pain in the world, also called lover! Recently, I have talked a lot about lovers. I used to think that lovers are mistresses, and they destroy families. But after receiving a lot of talk recently, I understand that many people have misunderstood their lovers. 至少在我看来，很多人做情人是不为金钱不图名利，只求一个情字。 情人更多的是知心，是友达以上，恋人未满的一种状态。在我看来，用红颜知己来形容最为贴切。情人，比爱人多了一份浪漫，比朋友多了一份知心，朋友是相互信任，爱人是相互包容，情人是相互欣赏。 有的时候因为一些我们无法左右的因素，开始了一段错误的感情。这个时候我们更需要有人理解，而情人的出现为我们打开了一扇天窗。所以 真正意义上的情人，就是知己。 这种感情，是若即若离的思念，是无人分享的窃趣，是除了妻子或丈夫以外的唯一，是锦上添花的极致。情人绝不会扰乱彼此的生活，更不会半路移情别恋，而是只为了一句誓言就足够等候一生！ At least in my opinion, many people who are lovers do not seek money or fame, but only love. Lovers are more confidants, who are friends or above, and are not full of lovers. In my opinion, it is most appropriate to describe it as a confidant. A lover is more romantic than a lover, and more confidant than a friend. A friend is mutual trust, a lover is mutual tolerance, and a lover is mutual appreciation. Sometimes we start a wrong relationship because of some factors we can't control. At this time, we need someone to understand, and the appearance of lovers opens a window for us. So the true lover is a bosom friend. This kind of feeling is a kind of vague yearning, a secret interest that no one shares, the only one except the wife or husband, and the ultimate icing on the cake. Lovers will never disturb each other's lives, nor will they change their hearts halfway, but they will wait for a lifetime just for one oath! 但可惜的是，大部分的情人都很痛苦，因为他们彼此挂念，却没有一个结果。 他们彼此想念对方，但是却无法相见。你知道思念的滋味吗？那种感觉就像在油锅上煎熬，痛苦却只能忍耐。 情人当然想肆无忌惮的相见，但是这样就会破坏彼此的生活，为了自己也为了对方，只能默默忍受这份寂寞。 没有情人是痛苦的，因为缺少一个知己，有情人也是痛苦的，因为多了一份牵挂。怪只怪自己当初太过冲动，错爱了一生。 一旦做了情人，是很难罢手的。因为纵有千万种痛苦，只要和你在一起，就是幸福的。哪怕遍体鳞伤，我仍然执迷不悔。不是因为我怕寂寞，而是我怕失去你。 做了情人，就等于忍受痛苦。可是一想到遇见他，我少了很多寂寞，我知道这世界上有人懂我，我度过了很多快乐的时光。这样想想，似乎也没有那么痛苦了。 即使没有未来，也让我们做一辈子的情人吧，一半痛苦一半快乐，做情人无怨无悔。 But unfortunately, most lovers are very painful because they miss each other, but there is no result. They miss each other, but they can't see each other. Do you know the feeling of missing? That kind of feeling is like suffering on the oil pan, but the pain can only endure. Lovers, of course, want to meet each other without fear, but this will destroy each other's lives. For themselves and for each other, they can only bear the loneliness silently. It is painful to have no lover because of the lack of a confidant. It is also painful to have a lover because of more care. I only blame myself for being too impulsive and having wrongly loved my whole life. Once a lover, it is hard to stop. Because even if there are thousands of kinds of pain, as long as we are with you, we will be happy. Even though I was bruised all over, I still remained unrepentant. Not because I'm afraid of loneliness, but because I'm afraid of losing you. To be a lover is to endure pain. But when I think of meeting him, I feel less lonely. I know that some people in the world understand me, and I have had a lot of happy times. Think of it this way, it seems not so painful. Even if there is no future, let's be lovers for a lifetime, half pain and half happiness, and have no regrets. 
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