“Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
Don’t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise,
you cannot stop the annoying chatters.????
二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來監護，以免惹人烦。
Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them,????
so to avoid incurring complaints.
三、不必事事都非知道不可，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
No necessary to know everything,
pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心。尋找自己的社会圈子，才不至
天天生活在盼望与失望之间。
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life,
look for personal social circles,
so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.?
五、不要逢人就訴苦，要培养自己的爱好，例如寫作、绘画、練功和唱歌等，以藝術和創作升華你的精神。
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising,??
singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across
六、多些赞美，少些抱怨，对别人为你做的好事常怀感激之心。
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.
七、不要卷入孫輩与成年子女间的爭執，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children,
this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
八、不要因病痛而怨天尤人，有病就治，要有信心和耐心。
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.
九、不要担心未来，疑心太重，要为自己拥有的物质和健康心存感激，并以此鼓励身邊的老年朋友。
Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you
十、要有信仰，要坚信未来 ，以愉快和乐观面对明天。
Participate in religious
activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant,????
optimistic attitudes toward the future.??
