Learn to get to know people of high status

                          Learn to get to know people of high status



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     Person's knowledge, training, experience, status is different, hence the common and dignity of the points. This is the difference between the level of interpersonal relationships is a natural order. Worthy is a relative concept, each person who is noble, but also has its own respect from the object. Contacts to different location we will change with it. Distinguished by While we do not belong to the same type of interaction, there is a certain communication barriers, but we can break the barriers to normal relations with them, and even the development of friendship. So how were the development of friendship and honor it?

First, respect each other, have caused serious

      And distinguished by the development of friendship, we must first accurately grasp the bilateral relations, to its corresponding position in order to fully demonstrate his respect for the reverent. This is a confirmation of the relationship and positioning, but also a kind of respect for each other to meet the desire to be rigorous delivered, not struggling. Xu was a small administrative office is appreciated the leadership of the Board of Education. The leader is a teacher background, people are approachable. He has not met with little promise, but he appreciated the talent of small promises, it will invite a small expectations and talk to him. Little Xu was not carried away in the leadership before, carried away, and conversation, are rigorous properly, very measured, focus distance. Although the cheerful leader, repeatedly pledged to free some small promise, but still move to small promise from the heart happy, he feels no wrong people. In this way, who led a small expectations and gradually established a friendship.

Second, should not flatter, neither overbearing nor servile

       Respect is a principle, see the truth of. If we disregard the principle of another purpose, personality fallen, no sense of shame, for those who will be honored to show flattery. This surface seems to respect each other, and respect the fact that it is essentially different. Flattery, insincere, exaggerated, ulterior motives, only to honor those disgusted, disgust, hate. Could build friendship, but the two sides can not go on losing the truth. We can not rule out the possibility Worthy ambitious, willing to listen to flattery, obsequiousness to see the. But this need with his distinguished by the development of friendship?

Third, the attitude of natural, not stiff

      Distinguished persons, regardless of status, or experience, knowledge, are high as we edge. Contacts with them, often awe us, and sometimes we have a sense of coercion and silenced. We, as ordinary people, especially young people are not naive in this situation often appears to move out of shape, words softly, in particular, awkward, stiff. In fact, our distinguished by an equal communication object, but also a natural intercourse between, we have to respect they arise, on the other hand based on their own, hold square inch, to keep gray, natural and normal people, not stiff. This hand, to show their communicative charm to win recognition and respect for each other and honor those who will be happy with us to develop friendship. NANHUA is a talented young people to make progress, he would like to contact with a number of respected predecessors, can the end result is a failure. The reason is mainly NANHUA too cautious, and a Wowonangnang Venezuela look like petty trivial, of course, allow the seniors to disappointment, how he developed friendship with it?

Fourth, care will be equipped with clever, not arrogant

      From the communication process, the noble hero who is the communication, and we are supporting, in a secondary position. This is a communicative situation, communication is also the law of identity by mutual interaction and communication of energy decisions. We must actively support the noble persons, with the noble enthusiasm of those saddle before the horse, subject to need, pending disposal. This is in line with real communication, not only will not harm their own "value", and will obtain the trust of the distinguished persons. And if this relationship can not be put right, not proper to show his ability, shaking get their talent, and even abandoned, marginalized distinguished persons, which is often counterproductive. Can always hope that expose little talent, so one of his most respected old man recognized him. Time, the elderly in the evening to sing opera, although the singing is not good, but still won the applause, the small Chan thought, his bright voice will make sense of the elderly are friends. Then a loud high-pitched Peking opera singing, but the elderly feel very natural on stage. Although small Can goodwill, but such "touch" the elderly, the elderly but also with his development of friendship?

Fifth, take the initiative in good faith, make a gesture

     The behavior is to honor with their own identity, status remain the same. They generally will not take the initiative to contact us, and as ordinary people, as the next, lower status than him, since to take the initiative, full of faith, the first step to make a friendly gesture, which is the virtue of elders Sincerely, also communication practices. Xiaowen met at a meeting an accomplished writer, his treasure that relationship, but he was a normal person, but also a junior, of course, did not cause writer's attention. However, the small text it as natural, not angry, he will send greeting cards to the festive writer. Remember the last writer of small text, and with his unusual friendship with.

Sixth, help ask for advice, receive care

      Worthy is the symbol of strength, in front of him, we looked very weak and immature. Therefore, to accept and seek care. This is our interaction with those who seek dignity and the urgent need to get something, two as a noble, he will derive the joy of giving and support, is a self-realization. Find care to respect the dignity of a person's desire, two to moderate properly, can not rely on, attached to Worthy. This includes the right to some extent on the help and advice. This will be distinguished by the recognition, and complete access to his friendship. Xiao Gang, a renowned teacher of the school is very respected, active worship him as a teacher, always ask questions, seek help and supports and encourages young. Xiaogang respect the rest of his habits and hobbies mettle, so ask there will be harvest time. And the advice in this time and time again, the teachers who also had a keen interest in Xiaogang, and gradually had a deep friendship.