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自测：性格内向的7个标志 7 Signs You’re An Introvert, Even If You Don’t Feel You Are 自测：性格内向的7个标志 Many people associate introversion with shyness, which is untrue. In fact, introverted people tend to simply find that they get more energy from being alone or in very small groups, as opposed to extroverts who find that large groups give them more energy. Here are 15 signs that you’re an introvert, even if you hadn’t ever previously thought that you were. 很多人认为内向就是羞于表达，这是不正确的。实际上，内向的人会发现他们是那种能从自身或是自己所在的那个小群体中获得更多能量的人，与之相对的，外向的人很清楚：很大的一群人才能给他们能量。也许你之前并不认为自己内向，这里有内向者的7个特征，对照着看下吧。 1.You find crowds stressful. 人多的时候会觉得很有压力 Crowds are definitely not an introvert’s favorite place to be. Concerts, rallies, conferences, sports arenas: these can all be very uncomfortable places for an introvert. 众所周知，人多的场合是内向的人不喜欢的。音乐会、集会、会议、运动赛事等：这些场合都会让内向的人觉得不舒服。 2.You aren’t thrilled to meet new people. 不是很喜欢结交新朋友 This isn’t to say that you don’t make friends easily, but that sometimes meeting new people is a big drain on your energy. Simply keeping up a conversation with a new person is difficult, and you leave the conversation feeling drained. 这不是说交新朋友很困难，但是有时候认识新朋友确实是很消磨精力。甚至就是简单地和新朋友交流都觉得有些困难，离开之后也会觉得精疲力竭。 3.You’re friends with extroverts. 朋友都比较外向 Opposites attract, right? Many introverts are friends with extroverts because this provides balance for both types of people. Sometimes, introverts need to be led out of their shells a bit, and extroverts need to recognize the benefits of a quiet night in. 还是异性相吸呀，对吧？许多比较内向的人都和性格外向的人是朋友，因为这样在两种类型之间能保持一种平衡。有时候，内向的人需要释放自己，而有时候外向的人也需要一个恬静夜晚。 4.You don’t like interviews (in the beginning). 不喜欢面试 Job interviews aren’t exactly an introvert’s favorite thing. However, introverts can be great at them! Going in, you might be nervous, but once you get to know your interviewer a little better, you’re able to really hit it off. 应聘显然是内向的人不喜欢的事情。但是性格内向的人却能做得很好。开始的时候可能会有些紧张，但是一旦知道面试官还是不错的之后，便能一拍即合。 5.You’re a loyal friend. 对朋友很忠诚 Introverts tend to be very loyal and honest people. Because introverts’ energy comes from themselves, and not from others。 内向的人对朋友很忠诚也很真诚。因为性格内向的人的能量是来源于自己，不是别人。 6.You don’t trust easily. 不会轻易的相信别人 For introverts, it can be difficult finding friends who respect your introverted nature. So when you do start becoming chummy with someone, you might take a little longer than an extrovert when it comes to trusting that person. Often, this means you won’t get hurt as often as an extrovert, and your friends are people you can really count on. 对于性格内向的人来说，要想找到一个真正尊重内向这种性格的朋友是比较困难的。所以性格比较内向的人想要和某人发展起一段友好关系所用的时间要比性格外向的人花的时间长。通常来说，经常和性格外向的人在一起不会轻易受到伤害，朋友也是那些可以信任的人。 7.You’re courteous. 非常的谦逊有礼 Often, introverts are more mindful of their surroundings and perceptive to small details. This makes you a courteous guest and host, and people love having you around. 通常来说，内向的人对周围的环境和生活中的小细节都是比较敏感的。这点也会让你对主人家或是客人始终谦逊有礼，人们也喜欢和你相处。 |
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