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原创翻译：龙腾网 http://www. 翻译：无限回忆 转载请注明出处 论坛地址：http://www./bbs/thread-473061-1-1.html Anonymous Answered Jul 16, 2017 Okay..I wanted to share this very badly with people near to me and cry aloud, but I can’t. But I'm sharing it here today because I could get some help from you guys and help me sustain in my life. 行…我曾想把这些不愉快的事情分享给我身边的人，放声痛哭，但我不能这样做。不过在这里我就勉为其难分享一下。 今天，我之所以在这里分享是想获得各位的帮助，也让我能在生活上得到一些救赎。 It's 30th December 2010, midnight, my mother was talking to someone on phone in very lustful way. I could hear each and every single word clearly of her. It's with some guy named abc. I couldn't believe what was happening at that moment. 2010年12月30日，午夜时分，我听到我妈正以一种欲求不满的语气和某人在电话里交谈。我能够听清楚他们的每一句话每一个词。她在和几个名叫XX的男人聊天。那一刻，我怀疑起了人生。 My heart was beating so fast at that moment. Even now while writing this answer my hands are shaking. I couldn’t bear the thing that was happening in front if me. I was in 10th standard at that time. Me, my younger brother and my mom were sleeping in same room that night. My father was having night shift at his work. 那一刻我的心扑腾扑腾跳地飞快。甚至当我写着这个回复的时候，我的手也直哆嗦。我接受不了眼前正发生的事实。那时我还在读高一。我，弟弟和妈妈在那天晚上睡在同一个房间里。父亲正在上夜班。 I was shattered. She was my biggest strength. I couldn't sleep that night and in the morning when i asked her whom she was talking she told, as she was talking with her sister in front of my father and after my father left she requested and begged me not to talk about this in front of my father and promised me she would never do such things again in future and stop this thing. 我的三观被击得粉碎。她曾是我人生的信标。 那个晚上我辗转反侧，彻夜未眠，到了早上我询问她在和谁聊天，她如实坦白，当时她正在和她的妹妹在父亲面前交谈，在父亲离开之后，她恳请我不要把这件事告诉父亲，并且向我保证不会再犯了。 She also has been doubted by my father in 2-3 such incidents as far as I remember. I just couldn't believe what and why was that happening. I used to cry, day and night whenever I think about it. How would a 10th class fellow typical indian would react to such thing. I used to shout at my mother. My behaviour towards my mother totally changed. I always used to fight with her and rashly talk to her, always quarreling with her. 就我记得而言，父亲也对她有过几次怀疑与此次事件类似的情况。 我只是无法相信，为什么会发生这样的事情。我哭了好多次，无时无刻我的脑子里都想着这件事。 还在读高一的印度人对这件事情持何种看法呢？我完全改变了对待母亲的态度。我总是与她打架、言语攻击。 My mom has been working since when I was in 6th standard as teacher, accountant etc. Some 1-2 years passed and I tried to forget everything she did, forgot that bitter truth and tried to be nice with her and also be happy with my whole family. Me and my brother use to have most of the fun times with my mom only. All was good. 妈妈从我六年级的时候就一直在做老师，会计等。 一两年过去了，我试着忘记她所做的事情，遗忘残酷的事实，试着和她修复关系，也让我的家庭变得和睦。我仅仅是和弟弟与母亲一起度过美好的时光。一切都很好。 But again in 2017 January, I caught her having affair with her boss from her whatsapp messages. She has been working there for roughly 4 years. That time me and my mother were alone in the home. While I was asking about the messages and affair, and while giving her as laast warning, tears were dripping from my eyes and didn't even realise crying. 但是在2017年1月份，我在她的whatsapp消息中发现了她和她的老板有一腿。她大概已经在那里工作了4年。当我质问她关于那些消息、给她最后通牒的时候，眼泪从我的眼睛里滴落下来，我甚至没有注意到我正在哭。 Why? Why again? Why she's doing? She's having a 20 years old son(me) and another 17 years old son. Despite all previous incidents, why it has to be like this? I'm studying my UG course away from my hometown. 为什么？为什么要再犯？为什么她要做这种事？她已经有一个20岁大的儿子（我）和一个17岁大的儿子（我弟）。尽管之前发生过同样的事，但为什么要这么做？ She used to call me daily before the recent incident and after that incident I stopped talking to her completely. I cut her calls. Sometimes lift the call and say in very rash manner that “I don't feel like talking to you anymore”. But from inside despite all those things I also feel like talking to her, share tons of things with her. I became very weak emotionally from the recent incident and feel vey low at some times not talking to her. 在发生最近的这件事之前她每天都打电话给我，这件事之后我彻底断绝了和她的通信往来。我切断她的电话。有时我会接通电话并且以非常粗鲁的语气说：“我不想再和你说话了。” 不过尽管发生了这些事情，我还是会想和她说话，与她分享生活中的点点滴滴。在最近的事件中我变得疲惫不堪，情绪低落，好几次没跟她说话。 Anonymous Updated Feb 28, 2017 I am 19 years old female currently studying in Delhi University. 我是个19岁的女生，目前在印度德里大学学习。 I belong to normal middle class family and I give tutorials to some kids only because I like it and also as a source of pocket money. My family still gives me money whenever I ask for. 我属于普通的中产阶级，我在给一些小孩子做家教，不仅是因为我喜欢，这也是我获得零花钱的途径。并且只要我问了，家里还是会给我提供生活费的。 They never ask how I spend the 5k that I earn by giving tutorials. Because 5k is a very small amount for them. 他们从来不会询问我是怎么花从做家教里挣来的5000.因为5000对于他们来说就是笔小钱。 So, here is how I actually spend it :I donate approx 2.5k to a nearby orphanage every month. Sometimes while roaming around on roads I buy food like burgers/frooti/biscuits for poor Street kids in cp or Chandni chowk. 因此，在这里我就讲一讲我是怎么花的：我每个月都会给附近的孤儿院捐赠2500左右，有时我在路上闲逛时，我就会为贫穷的流浪儿童们买一些食物，比如汉堡、frooti、饼干。 And the rest 2. 5k I either spend on travelling or shopping or eating. Well I am a Jain and my family recently spent 1. 5 lakh on some statue for a famous jain temple. Well, I can't tell this incident at my home as they will try to convince me to donate some amount to temples also. 剩下的2500我会用来旅游、购物、吃。 我是个耆那教徒并且最近我家花了15万卢比用于祭祀一些有名的耆那寺庙雕像。我不能把这件事告诉我家里，不然他们会试图说服我，让我也给寺庙捐一些钱。 I am not against them but I believe it's all about difference in opinion . I like donating at orphanages. My family likes donating at temples. Period. 我并不反对他们，我觉得这只是价值观的不同。我喜欢把钱捐赠给孤儿院。我的家人喜欢把钱捐赠给寺庙。 I know the amount that I contribute is very small but that's all I can afford right now. Wait for me to be successful and I have many plans for the needy in the future. So yes, this is something that I have never told anyone. 我知道我捐赠的金额很小，但这就是我所能承担的全部了。等我事业有成的那天，我有许多关照贫困群体的计划。 以上，就是我从来没有告知他人的事情。 Anonymous Updated Feb 13, 2017 I am software engineer working in the IT industry for last 2.5 years. I have completed my B.E in 2014. I belong to a small village in central India. 我是一名软件工程师，在IT行业工作了两年半。我已经在2014年完成了工程师学士学业。我来自于印度中部的一个小村庄。 The thing i never told anyone is ‘me and my mother used to cry silently together in our bad time back in 2011–2014 during my engineering’, and now also i cry sometimes when i recall that time. 我从未告诉过任何人的事情是：“我和母亲曾在我学习工程师学业的2011年——2014年期间，在这段糟糕的时光里默默地哭泣”现在当回忆起那段时间的场景时，我会不由得落泪。 My father owns 10–15 acre(non-irrigated) land in my village and was engaged in conventional farming. My mother helped in farming. He used to earn hardly 50–60K (Profit) a year during that period, the reason being lot of factors which adversely affected our farming. 父亲在村子里拥有10-15英亩（没有灌溉）的土地，从事传统的农业耕作。母亲也在帮忙。在那段时间里，他一年挣不到50——60K（利润），原因是很多因素对我们的农业造成了不利影响。 I did my primary education from government school in my village and from 10th grade onwards from a regional medium school in a nearby village. I struggled a lot during my engineering due to language issues. 我在村里的公立学校接受小学教育，从10年级开始在附近村庄的一所地区中学读书。由于语言问题，我在工程生涯上遇到了很多困难。 My family also struggled along because of our poor finances. We were running out of money and we also had debts to pay off. This was because most of the money we had went into my sister’s wedding, my college fees and farming. 由于家庭的财务状况不佳，家人在苦苦挣扎着。我们一贫如洗，还要偿还债务，这是因为大部分钱都花在了姐姐的婚礼上以及我的大学学费和农业费用。 Somedays I used to go college without a penny, me and my mother used to cry whenever my father borrowed money from my relatives or any other sources. But they always supported for my education even though they are not much educated. 有时我去学校时身上没有一分钱，每当父亲向亲戚或从其他来源借钱时，我和母亲就会默默哭泣。他们一直都支持我接受教育，即使他们没有受过多少教育。 We tried to sell some of our land to change the situation but few people who came forward offered very less amount and due to other property related issues, we couldn't sell the farm. 我们试着卖掉一些土地来改变现状，但是只有一些人有意向并且价格很低，并且由于其他财产相关的问题，我们无法卖掉农场。 Now my situation is pretty good, but whenever I recall these moments and my mother’s face, the tears just flow. No one knows about this.. 现在我的情况相当的好，但是每当我想起这些时刻以及母亲的脸庞，眼泪就会止不住地流下来。无人知晓此事。 Time always Change.. just wait .. Faith.. and Fight.. 时间会改变一切. .只需要等候. .虔诚. .以及奋斗。 Anonymous Answered Aug 12, 2017 Anonymous because my friend would kill me! (This is a relatively happy story, no bad ending or regrets in it). 匿名是因为我的朋友会杀了我！ （这个故事是个相对的happy end，没有憾事以及bad ending） So, a few years ago, I went on a trip to another city in India. There, I met this guy (about my age), and as we were both students, we got talking and became friends. 在几年前我到印度的某个城市旅游。在那里我遇到了这个小伙子（有关我的年龄），在我俩的学生时代，我们彼此之间无话不谈，成为了好友。 His life story is quite interesting..was a good student, but not mathematically inclined. Thus, he took up Physics, Chemistry and Biology in school. Fell in love with biology, and kept studying it in detail (as much as his resources permitted him). 他的人生很有故事。他是个三好学生，不过数学一般般。因此他在学校里学习物理、化学和生物学。从而爱上了生物学并不断地研究它（他有资本这么干）。 After grade 12, he sat the AIPMT and other medical examinations, and flunked them on purpose, for he genuinely wanted to study Biology, instead of becoming a doctor. His parents forced him into taking the exam again the next year, which he flunked again. 12年级之后他参加了“医学测试”和其他医学考试，并故意考了个不及格，因为他对生物学心有所属，而不是成为一个医生。第二年，他的父母强迫他再次参加考试，他再次考试不及格。 Disappointed, his parents asked him if he wanted to drop a year again. He convinced them that he’d be okay with studying biology (BSc) instead of wasting his time and their money. 他的父母非常失望，询问他是否要再来一次。他让父母相信他可以研究生物学（BSc），而不用浪费时间和金钱。 He made a good decision, for it cost him little money, then he went on to do an MSc from one of India’s premier institutions (The BSc was from a state university), and then a PhD from another reputed institute. 他做了一个正确的决定，因为这只花费了他的一笔小钱，然后他又从印度的一个主要机构（BSc是州立大学）获得了理学硕士，然后又从另一个著名的学院获得了博士学位。 He’s now doing a post doc in epidemiology (Or immunology, not sure) from the USA. 他现在正在美国做一个流行病学（或者免疫学）的博士后研究。 He’s only told some of his friends this, and his parents never knew that he flunked the AIPMT on purpose. This goes to prove that anything feasible is achievable, provided you work hard, smart, and of course, have some luck. He stuck to his passion, but unlike most of us, had the dedication to achieve it. 他只告诉了他的一些朋友，他的父母从来不知道他是故意不及格的。这证明了任何可行的事情就是可以实现的，只要你集努力、智慧还有一点点小运气于一身。他的激情难以磨灭，他与常人不同，他愿意为了达到自己的目的奉献一切。 |
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