 The Nature of Sexual ConditioningRa Uru Hu · Excerpt from Sex and the Generator 性調理的性質 Ra 烏拉圭胡·從性和產生器中摘錄 " 很明顯, 在沒有正確進入關係的情況下, 非組建類型被深深地局限在他們的性的方式。他們可能會被限制在一個模式, 當事實上, 這種模式, 本身, 成為一個約束, 不舒服, 和一些他們只是不能容忍。同時, 它們也可以被局限于一種對他們來說並不自然的親密關係。 事實是, 有大量的 "可用性調節", 所以許多有深度性困難的人都是開放的骶骨或開放的太陽叢中心, 因為它可以如此扭曲, 以這種方式受到影響。 有趣的是, 如果你看一下1800晚期的非骶骨生物, 他們在性方面的經驗就不同了。在大多數情況下, 他們 (性) 伴侶是他們一生中唯一知道的伴侶。這種調節的影響是很有限的, 在這個意義上;他們不知道有什麼其他的方式操作。 當我們經歷了戰後的性革命和人們開始嘗試與許多合作夥伴, 這真的帶來了開放的骶和情緒系統的困難表面, 因為你最終與人有各種性困難。因此, 重要的是要瞭解開放的骶骨是如何適應的性可得性的伴侶。 人類的設計是學習如何尊重他人的本性。我們和另一個人的關係太不誠實了。這是不誠實的, 僅僅是因為它是兩個不是自我的, 並且有很少的真理可以分享不自我。事實是, 任何人都被其他人限制, 並沒有什麼錯。畢竟, 條件是開放的另一個詞, 因為作為一個受體。我們對所有這些都有受體;這是生活中必不可少的成分。 要接受這個條件的人必須被帶入其中, 必須正確地進入。但不幸的是, 調節是一種可怕的事情, 而事實上它並不一定是這樣。但是, 這一切都取決於你將如何進入任何經驗。 "It’s very clear that in not entering into relationships correctly, non-generative types are deeply conditioned in the way they are available sexually. They may be conditioned to be available to a pattern when in fact the pattern, in and of itself, becomes a constraint, uncomfortable, and something that they just cannot tolerate. At the same time, they can be conditioned to an intimacy that is simply not natural for them. The fact is, there is a tremendous amount of “availability conditioning,” and so many of the people who have deep sexual difficulties are those with either open Sacral or open Solar Plexus Centers, because it can be so distorting to be impacted in that way. What is interesting about all that is, if you look at the non-sacral beings in the late 1800’s, they actually had a very different kind of experience in terms of their sexuality. In most cases, their (sexual) partner was the only partner they would ever know in their life. The impact of the conditioning was something that was deeply limited, in that sense; they didn’t know any other way in which that operated. The moment we had the post-war sexual revolution and people began to experiment with many partners, this really brought the difficulties of the open Sacral and Emotional system to the surface because you ended up with people having all kinds of sexual difficulties. So it’s important to understand how the open Sacral is conditioned by the sexual availability of a partner. Human Design is about learning how to respect the other human being for who they are. So much about our relationship with the other is dishonest. It’s dishonest simply because it’s two not-selves, and there is very little truth that can be shared between not-selves. The fact of the matter is that there is nothing wrong with anybody being conditioned by anybody else. After all, conditioning is just another word for being open, for being a receptor. We have receptors for all of this; it’s an essential ingredient in life. The person that’s going to accept the conditioning has to be brought into that, has to enter into that correctly. Conditioning is something that, unfortunately, becomes a horror when in fact it doesn't have to be. But, it’s all dependent on how you’re going to enter into any experience." https://jovianarchive./the-future-of-sex-love-relationships/#quote3 |
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