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在过去几年中，有一个名词“女强人”在社会上变得非常流行，它意味着女儿的解放，以及男人和女人之间平等的就业机会和社会地位。但是时间会说明一些问题。越来越多的实例显示出这类女强人的婚姻一般不会幸福，甚至走向失败，这是为什么呢？ In the past few years, a norm " able woman" became popular in the society, it means the liberation of female gender and the equal working chances and social status between women and men. But time could prove everything.More practical examples of able woman have shown that the marital life of this kind of women is generally not happy, even many of them end up as a failure.Why could this happen? 让我们看一下女强人的性格特点，她们有着坚强的意志，不管遇到任何困难，她们都不会退缩，相反表现出强势与勇敢，果断与精明，甚至比男人还男人。这些性格特点使她们在事业上取得了成功。但是他们把这种作风带回了家。她们面对家人的时候，也凌驾于他们之上，很霸道，强迫每个家庭成员服从自己的命令，否则就会用犀利的语言和咆哮对待他们。她们甚至让自己的老公牺牲自己的时间和精力照顾家务、孩子和老人，让她们有足够的时间打理事业。 Let's see the charateristic of able woman. Generally, they have strong-will,no matter what difficulties are put in front of them ,they won't shrink,reversely they behaves mighty and brave, decisive and shrewd, even more masculiar than men.This kind of manners make them successfully conquer their career.But they bring this behavior styles back home.When they face their families, they also superior to them , so arbitrary, forcing every member to obey herself, or they will hear harsh words and roars.They even make their partner to sacrifice their time and energy to take care of housework and children and seniors ,letting herself has enough time to deal with her business. 所以作为她们的老公，就会有两种反应。一种是在这种女人的压迫之下，他们真的变的懦弱无能。随着时间推移，他们夫妻之间在事业上的差距越来越明显，女人开始意识到她们嫁了一个多么无能的丈夫，他们开始抱怨，把更多的屈辱施加于老公身上，这又使情况更加恶化。另外，作为这类女强人的儿子，他们会跟自己的父亲一样懦弱，像扶不上墙的烂泥，而女儿会学习妈妈，歧视男性，不服从权威，强势，就像母亲的复制品。 So as the her husband, they will generate two kinds of responses. One kind is that they really become very cowerd and timid and furtile under the surpression of the woman, as time goes by, the gap between their career becomes more apparant. The woman begin to realize what a unable man she has married.They complain much and give more insults to their husband, which make the condition deteriorate.And what's more, as the sons of this kind of woman, they become as cowerd as their father, like slime couldn't be smeared on the wall. and the daughters will learn from their mother, they dispise men, don't respect authority, and mighty,just like their mother's copy. 她们老公的另一种反应是，他们不能再忍受这样的压迫，作为一个男人的自尊，他们不能再面对社会压力，相对于成功能干的妻子，他们显得如此没用，所以最终他们与她离了婚。 The other kind of their husband's behavior is that they won't bear the oppression any more, with the diginity as a man, they couldn't endure the pressure from the socity, for compared with their able wife, they seem so furtile,at last they devorced their wife, no matter how much glory their wife has. 但是与女强人相反的情况是目前到处兴起的一个新名词“强女人”。这种女人是这样作为的。不管她们在工作中成功与否，在家里，她们把自己放在最低的位置，甚至比孩子更低，这是对老公的男子汉气概和孩子自信心的保护。她们有足够的智慧明白男子汉气概是由女人味烘托出来的。提建议和改正别人缺点的最好的办法是赞美和鼓励。她们是温柔的，在老人面前是顺从的，这使得老人每天都有好心情。所以整个家庭以她为核心充满着温暖与和谐，每个人都有灿烂的现在和更加美好的未来。 But on the contrary of the case of able woman, nowadays a new norm "successful woman" soars everywhere.This kind of woman behaves like this.No matter whether they succeed or not in the occupation, in the home ,they put themselves the lowest of the family, even lower than their children, which is the protection fo the masculinity of their husband the self-confidence of their children.They are wise enough know the masculinity is boosted by femininity.And the best way to give her advice and correct other's mistakes is by appraising and encouraging.They are gentle and soft.To the old men, they are obedient,which make the old have good mood every day.So the whole family is warm and homonious,every member has splendid today and more wondeful future with her as the core. 现在你可以得出结论，女强人就是除了她自己之外家里所有人都不强；而强女人是她让家里每个人都强。 Now you can get the conclution, the "able woman"is that nobody in the family except herself is strong.But the "successful woman" is that she makes everybody in the family prosporous. 你会选择做哪种女人呢？ which kind of woman do you want to be ? |
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