这位临终关怀护士汇总了患者在生命最后12周里透露出的种种人生遗憾。下面这五点是出现最多最普遍的遗憾 1. 多希望我当初有勇气去过忠于自我的生活，而不是按别人期望的那样去生活。 2. 多希望我当初不那么拼命工作。(所有男性患者都遗憾错过孩子小时候的成长过程和挚爱伴侣的陪伴) 3. 多希望我当初能有勇气表达自己的情感。 4. 多希望我当初能跟朋友们保持联络。 5. 多希望我当初允许自己活得更快乐。(意识到快乐是一种选择) 布隆妮·维尔，澳洲临终关怀护士 Top Five Regrets of the Dying Bronnie Ware,Australian nurse/Hospice Phenomenal Clarity of vision people gain at the end of their lives same top 5 regrets people expressed in the last 12 weeks of life) 1. 1 wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life other's expected of me. 2.1 wish I hadn't worked so hard.(Every male patient) Felt they missed their children's youth & partner's companionship. 3.1 wish I'd had the Courage to express my feelings. 4.I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. 5.l wish that I had let myself be Happier.Realized happiness was a choice. |
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