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灵活性能让你接受现实（或者有见识的人）给你的教益。自我归责很重要，因为如果你真的相信未能实现某个目标是你自己的失败，那你就会把这一失败视为一个提示，它说明相对于你的任务而言，你的创造性、灵活性和坚定性还不够。 这样会大大提高你寻找方法的积极性。 Flexibility is what allows you to accept what reality (or knowledgeable people) teaches you; self-accountability is essential because if you really believe that failing to achieve a goal is your personal failure, you will see your failing to achieve it as indicative that you haven’t been creative or flexible or determined enough to do what it takes. And you will be that much more motivated to find the way.
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