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内向人喜欢你的十大征兆




Introversion is an often-misunderstood term, because people relate it so much to shyness. It actually doesn’t go by a one-size-fits-all definition as it can be categorized into four different types. The four types of introverts can be vaguely described by the trait Social, Thinking, Anxious and Restrained.

内向这个词经常被人误解,因为人们会把它和害羞联系起来。实际上,内向的定义不止一种,因为他可以分成四种不同的类型。四种不同的内向型人格可大致描述成四中特性:社交型,思考型,焦虑型和谨慎型。

Social introverts

社交型内向者

The believe that social introverts dislike socialization is false. Rather, they prefer to socialize in small groups of people they feel compatible with and comfortable around, such as close friends or their family circle. Thus, they are not exactly shy or reserved.

社交型内向者讨厌社交的观点是错误的。更准确来说,他们喜欢和一小群、能够和睦相处、轻松自在的人交往,例如他们的挚友和家庭圈子。因此,他们不是完全害羞或者沉默寡言的。

Thinking introverts

 思考型内向者


These are people who remain introverts in their thinking process causing them to be more thoughtful and self-reflective. For instance, they can get lost in their own dream road drowned in creativity and imagination.

他们会在思考的过程中保持内向使他们变的深思熟虑,更会自我反省。比如说,他们会迷失于幻想的道路上,沉溺于创造和想象当中。

Anxious introverts

 焦虑型内向者


Anxious introverts prefer to be alone because they feel uncomfortable or unsuitable during social gatherings as they are not confident about their social skills. Consequently, they are likely to choose solitude but sometimes even solitude may not reduce their anxiety. These introverts tend to minimize anxiety by ruminating on things that could have gone wrong had they been in a particular social context.

焦虑型内向者更喜欢独自一个人,因为他们会在社交场合觉得不自在或是不舒服,因为他们对自己的社交技能没有自信。因此,他们更趋向于选择独处,但有时候,甚至独处都不能减轻他们的焦虑了。这些内向者减轻焦虑的方式通常是幻想着原本会被自己搞砸的事情,这些事情曾在特定的社交场合发生过。

Restrained introverts

 谨慎型内向者


They are people who take time in everything they do. Whether it’s socializing or springing up in action, they may seem slow since they think more carefully before they speak or act and are more passive in nature than the active types.

这些人会在他们所做的每件事情上花时间。不管是社交还是在行动上,他们可能慢悠悠的,因为他们在说话或者行动之前都会谨慎考虑。而且事实上,和活泼型相比,他们显得更被动。

Now you've probably come across an introvert in your life and label him or her at soul by identifying a trait that fits in one of the above types. So how do you know whether an introvert like you or not?

你可能会在生活中遇见内向的人,并且在心里,根据特征给他或她贴上标签,对应上面提到的其中一种类型。所以怎样才知道一个内向的人是不是喜欢你呢?


One, making the first move.

主动出击


Generally, introverts don’t make the first move in social context. But if you find that an introvert is actively making an effort to talk to you or making a gesture to grab your attention, you can bet he or she likes you.

一般来说,内向的人在社交场合上是不会主动搭讪的。但是如果你发现,一个内向的人很积极主动地与你交谈,或者做手势吸引你注意,你就可以断定他或她是喜欢你的。

Two, opening up.

敞开心扉


Introverts are not easy to crack. It takes time for them to come out of their shell and open up about themselves. However, if an introvert is telling you a lot about themselves, you are definitely someone they want to connect with.

内向的人是难以敞开心扉的。要给他们时间克服害羞,敞开自己的心扉。但是,如果一个内向的人跟你说了很多关于自己的事,他们绝对是想和你交朋友。


Three, observing.

观察


As introverts are good observes, they are not quick in making friends or including people in their social circle. They take their time getting to know people and later choosing as friends. If you find an introvert is building a good relationship with you, it means he or she wants to be close to you.

因为内向者都是很善于观察,他们不会很快就交朋友,或者让别人融入他们的交际圈。他们花时间去了解他人,然后选择可以做朋友的人。如果你发现某个内向的人正和你建立友好的关系,这就说明他或她想和你亲近。


Four, inviting you into their personal space.

邀请你进入他们的私人空间


Introverts like spending time in solitude to reflect on themselves, their thoughts and emotions. If you are invited into their personal space and asked to spend time with them, they no doubt enjoy your company.

内向的人喜欢独自一人消磨时间去反省自己、思考自己的想法和情绪。如果他们邀请你进入他们的私人空间,和他们共度时光。毫无疑问,他们喜欢有你的陪伴。


Five, talking about personal topics.

聊私人话题


You wouldn’t normally find an introvert engaging in a personal conversation. Instead, most of their conversations are generic. But if you come across an introvert that tells you about their likes and dislikes,interests, hobbies, ideologies, goals, that means they like you to the extent where they feel comfortable doing things that are considered out of character.

通常,你会发现内向的人是不会参与私人谈话的。相反,他们大部分的谈话内容都是很普通的。但如果你碰到某个内向的人告诉你他们的喜恶的时候,兴趣、爱好、观念和目标,这说明他们喜欢你到达了某种程度,让他们觉得做出与自己个性不相符的事情也不难受。


Six, showing extra care.

表达额外的关心


Introverts place high values on relationship. They show a lot of care, concern and empathy towards people who they consider friends or significant others through their communications and behaviors. If an introvert is paying extra attention to you then they consider you as part of their close circle of friends.

内向的人对感情额外的珍重。他们会通过交流和行动,对那些他们关心的朋友或者重要的人给予很多照顾、关心和共鸣。如果一个内向的人对你额外关注,那么他已经视你为朋友圈的一份子了。


Seven, going the extra mile.

付出额外的努力


Introverts are very warm and helping people. If you find an introvert trying to do things for you without you asking for help,you are someone he or she really likes.

内向的人都很温暖并喜欢帮助别人。如果你发现一个内向者尽力地去帮助你,即使你没有有求于他,那么,他或她是十分喜欢你的。


Eight, constantly keeping in touch.

经常保持联系


Even introverts distinguish between close and casual friends if they keep you a part of their daily lives then you are someone special to them.

即使是内向的人,他们也会划分谁是挚友,谁是普通朋友,如果他们把你当成生活中的一份子,那么,你便是他们特别的人。


Nine, revealing secrets.

分享秘密


Everyone has a secret they keep to themselves. Introverts especially are very careful about whom they reveal their secrets to. It can be something like allowing you to read their diary or sharing an important aspect of their past. If an introvert is allowing you to know a secret part of their life, you are someone who they really trust and like.

每个人都有自己的秘密。尤其是内向的人,他们会非常小心地选择可以倾诉自己秘密的人。例如,允许你看他们的日记,或者分享他们以前某种重要的事。如果一个内向的人允许你知道他们的秘密,那么,你就是他们很信任、很喜欢的人。


Ten, giving feedback.

给予反馈


Introverts don’t usually give others advice or feedback as they keep most of their opinions to themselves. But if you find that an introvert is giving you honest advice or feedback, they are definitely concerned about you and your well-being.

内向的人通常不会给别人建议或者反馈,因为巨大多数情况下,他们不会表达自己的意见。 但是,如果你发现一个内向的人诚心地给予自己的建议或者反馈,他们绝对是关心你,还有你的幸福。

 

说了这么多,你有没有发现身边有人正在爱上你呢?

快来告诉英语君,你的爱情故事吧!


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